Sharing to you the lessons I’ve learned…They are pretty basic but I’m writing them down as reminders to you and to myself.
When someone tells you you’re ugly…don’t believe them. Stay beautiful! (I’ve mastered this for ages)
When they tell you you can’t do it…there’s always a way. Since humans conquered the moon, nothing is impossible.
When there’s nothing else you can do about the situation…pray and pray and pray. I am a believer of God and miracles. (Ram might be strong, but all angels(doctors too) helped him walk and talk and run again)
When confronted to choose between work and family, we can have both!
When everyone’s rude, try to stay nice.
When everyone thinks you are unfair, cold and unreasonable. Respect their opinion. We don’t have to explain to each person.
When you hate and can’t forgive… It’s ok to hold grudge sometimes. There are people who don’t deserve love. But try to stay positive and forget that person…It’s easy to forget than forgive.
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Here they are! Maybe you can share your life’s lessons too 
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Thank you for your great entry. I really appriciate it. Despite of small tips, they mean so much to me. I also find some of my characters in your writing. It seems to me that the older I am, the calmer I become. To be honest with you, I used to be very active, opend-hearted, talkative but easily got angry. As a result, I made my mother bored because of frequent quarrels between I and my younger brother. However, many things have changed since my family moved to HCM City as well as I got older. And we now live in peace totally. We love each other and often share our feelings. In addition we have some activities doing together. It’s unforgettable time. It is just a typical example of mine. I even have a lot of other lessons. Finally I find out some interesting things to remember: love is the most wonderful in life. It may be love to yourself, your family, friends, or anything you can think of. It is the best way to improve your bad relationship or situation. Have you ever tried? One more tip, keep smiling and try to be good friends with anyone you meet and keep in touch with them as long as possible. Maybe some day you will need them or at least friendship makes your life more meaningful.
Thank you for sharing Huong. I learn a lot from you today
Thank you for giving these tips, Ms. Tara.I really like this entry of yours because I found a solution to my problems here.There are alot of things that I just want to make it dissapear but I can’t. So I pray everyday [I believe in miracles, too]. They do help.And there are people that I really hate and I can’t forgive them. It really is easier too forget than forgive
Thank you
this Entry makes me feel alot better
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Sometimes I got every body say something rude to me and then I just answer back to them but they ask many ? and these unreasonable? so I can’t answer it.
When i read this blog , I feel better because I think that I should not believe to anyone who is not your BFF or your family and it makes me keep my own opinion